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Published: August 2011
So, He Knows How To Manage Money?  

Dear Dave,

My husband likes to borrow money on fix-up projects around the house. He says he knows how to manage money, and will pay the loans back quickly. The other day, he came to me for money to make the payment on the latest loan he took out. Then, he started fussing at me when I didnít have the money to make the payment. Itís not the first time this sort of thing has happened. How can I make it stop?

Crystal

Dear Crystal,

This guy needs a swift kick in his rear end! He says he knows how to manage money, but he doesnít know how to save up to re-wire the garage?

It sounds to me like youíve got am overgrown teenager on your hands instead of a husband. Itís bad enough that he canít take care of his own responsibilities, but then he turns around and fusses when you wonít do it for him. Thatís ridiculous!

Marriage is all about unity. Once the rings go on those fingers itís a we thing, not a me thing. Husbands and wives should work together to form a game plan that will help them win in life, and that includes finances.

I think you should take the money heís asking for and use it to see a good marriage counselor. There are some real issues here that need attention. You guys need to deal with them, and create a real marriage, before this situation gets any worse!

óDave

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